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I think it's fairly universally known that new parents can't get any freakin' sleep, so I don't think it would be found offensive. More of a "I acknowledge that you have challenges but you're still funny and cool." And speaking as a parent, it's a better gift than, say, a toy drum.

I second the Ravelry suggestion - there's something for everyone there. There are plenty of male knitters who have a web presence outside of Rav, too, and if you're looking for books, may I suggest "Knitting With Balls?" ( http://www.amazon.com/Knitting-Balls-Hands-Guide-Modern/dp/07566228...