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How to ask out my girlfreind.....

Post by buzzbuzzcomics » Wed Jan 18, 2006 8:26 pm

Hi, I don't think this is the right forum to ask this, but I can't see any other forums I can ask this here.

I've been around a girl I like for 5 years now and I want to ask her out.

We're both at school and we talk and stuff, but I want to ask her to go out with me, probably go get a pizza or see a movie of something. I have thought about going with a few of the boys or something, just so that she doesn't think I'm coming on to her (yet).

There is one thing that I think is holding me back. I have bisexual urges. I would really appreciate your suggestions.

Sorry if this is a bad post, feel free to criticise me.

But please, give me your suggestions to how I can get this fantastic gorl to go out with me.

Thanks Guys!
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Post by Tigger » Wed Jan 18, 2006 8:30 pm

bisexual urges be damned - I'm not sure what they have to do with the price of tea in China.

Just ask her! Go up to her and tell her there's this movie coming out you'd like to see and you were wondering if she'd like to go with. DON'T TAKE YOUR FRIENDS! Then you look like a chicken-shit. And don't have them waiting in the wings either - as a matter of opinion, I wouldn't even tell them I was asking her! If she says no, big deal...you can try again later if you want.

Just be yourself. I wouldn't admit to the urges just yet. And as long as they're just urges and you don't act on them I don't see a reason to tell her at all until you are getting serious. I'd sound her out on that before admitting to it - and I'm bi myself, so I kinda know what I'm talking about (even if this is from a female persepective).

JMO...hope it helps.
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Post by document » Wed Jan 18, 2006 8:30 pm

If you want to ask her out, then ask her out. Just hit her up to go to the cafe for lunch with you and then take it from there.

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Re: How to ask out my girlfreind.....

Post by HTRN » Wed Jan 18, 2006 8:41 pm

What I would like to know is how can she be your girlfriend if you haven't asked her out yet?

*HTRN ponders this perplexing riddle*


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Post by Tigger » Wed Jan 18, 2006 8:43 pm

I wondered the same thing, and then figured he meant girl friend. as in friend of the female persuasion. :)
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Post by SunTzu » Wed Jan 18, 2006 8:45 pm

There are no such things Tigger.

Anyways, just ask her. If she turns you down, no worries.
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Re: How to ask out my girlfreind.....

Post by DerivedFromIntrospection » Wed Jan 18, 2006 8:46 pm

[quote="HTRN";p="585776"]What I would like to know is how can she be your girlfriend if you haven't asked her out yet?

[/I]*HTRN ponders this perplexing riddle*


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He probably meant girl friend, not girlfriend.
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Post by Tigger » Wed Jan 18, 2006 8:48 pm

[quote="SunTzu";p="585782"]There are no such things Tigger.[/quote]

Beg to differ - I have many male friends with whom I am just friends, nothing more ever to come. One of them is married, the rest are single (and mostly virgins!). So there is such a thing - you just have to be old enough to figure out how to do it apparently.
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Post by SunTzu » Wed Jan 18, 2006 8:53 pm

Tigger: Nono, girls can be friends with guys. Guys just cant be friends with girls ;) Ulterior motives ftw!
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Post by DerivedFromIntrospection » Wed Jan 18, 2006 8:55 pm

[quote="SunTzu";p="585797"]Tigger: Nono, girls can be friends with guys. Guys just cant be friends with girls ;) Ulterior motives ftw![/quote]


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Post by Rancod » Wed Jan 18, 2006 9:22 pm

I was going to post something insiteful, and cleaver, but if you were to take my advice, you would be hurt, as in with a bat.

Yes, you, next poster, you had a comment. Speak up for the rest of the class.....
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Post by NotQuiteDead » Wed Jan 18, 2006 9:23 pm

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Post by HTRN » Wed Jan 18, 2006 9:24 pm

Hey! That's my line! :o


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Post by Metzgirl » Wed Jan 18, 2006 9:56 pm

You're what, 13? You'll look way cool if you can just swallow your insecurities and ask her.

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Post by Deacon » Wed Jan 18, 2006 10:06 pm

Metzgirl, I was thinking the exact same thing. No joke. Was about to post that. "lolz guyz im 13 and bi come read my comix i have a girlfriend i have nevar aksed out wut do i do"

The fuck is a 13 year old doing talking about having "bisexual urges" anyway?!
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