I've read that book. It's chock full of good advice. Although, I found it more useful for dealing with a breakup than on relationship advice.Elvin wrote: Love is not an emotion. Love is a choice.
Victory = Mine
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"Est Sularus oth Mithas"
"All right then, throw down your weapons, and I'll see that you're well treated."
"Speak Softly and carry a big stick" - Theodore Roosevelt
"All right then, throw down your weapons, and I'll see that you're well treated."
"Speak Softly and carry a big stick" - Theodore Roosevelt
Heh. One of my pet peeves is this idealistic naive view of love that people seem to have. I've long ago decided that my only option to get rid of it is to drown people with cloying cliches and other alliterisms. Or just drown them. You know...with water...>.>
Bah. Too lazy to come up with a signature. 
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Euthanatos
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At least someone's paying attention.
Seriously now, it's not like I'm going to abuse the girl without consent here. The goal is not to inflict my view on her, but to make sure that what makes her happy is what pleases me most. Any idiot can force someone into a subservient position; it's only enjoyable when she actively wants to be there. That's what I'm going for. Of course I'm going to treat her well, just ask my #1 ex. Consider me an eye-opening experience in fun.
Seriously now, it's not like I'm going to abuse the girl without consent here. The goal is not to inflict my view on her, but to make sure that what makes her happy is what pleases me most. Any idiot can force someone into a subservient position; it's only enjoyable when she actively wants to be there. That's what I'm going for. Of course I'm going to treat her well, just ask my #1 ex. Consider me an eye-opening experience in fun.
I would weep, but my tears have been stolen.
I would shout, but my voice has been taken.
Thus, I write.
I would shout, but my voice has been taken.
Thus, I write.
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StruckingFuggle
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Isn't deliberate conditioning just a subtle, roundabout, and insidious form of force, though?Seriously now, it's not like I'm going to abuse the girl without consent here. The goal is not to inflict my view on her, but to make sure that what makes her happy is what pleases me most.
"He who lives by the sword dies by my arrow."
"In your histories, there are continual justifications for all manner of hellish actions. Claims of nobility and heritage and honor to cover up every bit of genocide, assassination, and massacre. At least the Horde is honest in their naked lust for power."
"In your histories, there are continual justifications for all manner of hellish actions. Claims of nobility and heritage and honor to cover up every bit of genocide, assassination, and massacre. At least the Horde is honest in their naked lust for power."
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Deacon
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I read "making sure" in a "verify" way as compared to a "make it such" or "mold her such" or "subjugate her to the point" type way. Observe:
"...to verify that what makes her happy..."
"...to make it such that what makes her happy..."
"...to mod her such that what makes her happy..."
"...to subjugate her to the point that what makes her happy..."
Posted Fri Mar 10, 2006 1:37 am:
Could be wrong, though.
"...to verify that what makes her happy..."
"...to make it such that what makes her happy..."
"...to mod her such that what makes her happy..."
"...to subjugate her to the point that what makes her happy..."
Posted Fri Mar 10, 2006 1:37 am:
Could be wrong, though.
The follies which a man regrets the most in his life are those which he didn't commit when he had the opportunity. - Helen Rowland, A Guide to Men, 1922
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Euthanatos
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For those who are interested, here's an exact quote from her.
< First of all, everyone I talk to about him responds with "That's so cute" or something very close to that. Isha has even made me promise her to keep her updated on "the cuteness"...It's just so awesome... >
< First of all, everyone I talk to about him responds with "That's so cute" or something very close to that. Isha has even made me promise her to keep her updated on "the cuteness"...It's just so awesome... >
I would weep, but my tears have been stolen.
I would shout, but my voice has been taken.
Thus, I write.
I would shout, but my voice has been taken.
Thus, I write.
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Re: Victory = Mine
[quote="Euthanatos";p="615777"]And who says I'm going to mess her up, honestly now. As I've said before, I just want to get the perfect sort of girlfriend here. That's all. I expect perfect obedience, and in return she gets everything she's never known she wanted.[/quote]
And Euthanatos can always fall back on good ol' Stockholm syndrome.
And Euthanatos can always fall back on good ol' Stockholm syndrome.
My slow descent into madness seems to have abruptly become a flaming plunge.
[quote="Arc Orion";p="602569"]Negative Polarity, you're a sick, sick bastard.[/quote]
[quote="Arc Orion";p="602569"]Negative Polarity, you're a sick, sick bastard.[/quote]
[quote="Rorschach";p="615657"]Sometimes, SunTzu, just sometimes, it's actually worth having you around. 
[/quote]
I know you love me
Posted Fri Mar 10, 2006 12:11 pm:
[quote="Euthanatos";p="615925"]Totally. Breath play is so hot, especially when she asks for it nicely.[/quote]
I concur!
Ive got to admit, im gliding into more and more of BDSM and domination games... like 24/7 domination games.
[/quote]I know you love me
Posted Fri Mar 10, 2006 12:11 pm:
[quote="Euthanatos";p="615925"]Totally. Breath play is so hot, especially when she asks for it nicely.[/quote]
I concur!
Ive got to admit, im gliding into more and more of BDSM and domination games... like 24/7 domination games.
"Find out just what people will submit to, and you have found the exact amount of injustice and wrongdoing which will be imposed on them; and these will continue until they are resisted with either words or blows, or with both. The limits of tyrants are prescribed by the endurance of those whom they oppress."
-- Frederick Douglas, 1857
[quote="Skorpion";p="521996"]
Then the head started coming off, so I just left it rammed into a stump.[/quote]
-- Frederick Douglas, 1857
[quote="Skorpion";p="521996"]
Then the head started coming off, so I just left it rammed into a stump.[/quote]
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You want to boss stuff around, get a dog. A spouse should be an equal partner, not something for you to pee on while she pretends to get hot about it so she doesn't have to stick a broomsitck in her pooper.
No person was ever honored for what he received. Honor has been the reward for what he gave. -- Calvin Coolidge
Today's liberals wish to disarm us so they can run their evil and oppressive agenda on us. The fight against crime is just a convenient excuse to further their agenda. I don't know about you, but if you hear that Williams' guns have been taken, you'll know Williams is dead. -- Walter Williams, Professor of Economics, George Mason University
Today's liberals wish to disarm us so they can run their evil and oppressive agenda on us. The fight against crime is just a convenient excuse to further their agenda. I don't know about you, but if you hear that Williams' guns have been taken, you'll know Williams is dead. -- Walter Williams, Professor of Economics, George Mason University
Re: Victory = Mine
[quote="Euthanatos";p="615777"]What friends?
And who says I'm going to mess her up, honestly now. As I've said before, I just want to get the perfect sort of girlfriend here. That's all. I expect perfect obedience, and in return she gets everything she's never known she wanted.[/quote]
I don't believe this statement. I don't buy your act at all. I went back and read a bunch of your posts, and there was way too much bravado for me to believe it was geniune.
And who says I'm going to mess her up, honestly now. As I've said before, I just want to get the perfect sort of girlfriend here. That's all. I expect perfect obedience, and in return she gets everything she's never known she wanted.[/quote]
I don't believe this statement. I don't buy your act at all. I went back and read a bunch of your posts, and there was way too much bravado for me to believe it was geniune.
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Euthanatos
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It was totally geniune.
So what, you think I'm going to abuse her? Or that I'm not going to bother exerting my will on her at all?
1295% serious here. You're a Seattle person. Come have coffee with me, I'm completely serious about both my kink and my plans for this relationship.
So what, you think I'm going to abuse her? Or that I'm not going to bother exerting my will on her at all?
1295% serious here. You're a Seattle person. Come have coffee with me, I'm completely serious about both my kink and my plans for this relationship.
I would weep, but my tears have been stolen.
I would shout, but my voice has been taken.
Thus, I write.
I would shout, but my voice has been taken.
Thus, I write.
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