where do the councillors go to get help?

daveyjones · Post by **daveyjones** » Sun Feb 18, 2007 12:58 pm

I need some advice.
Over the last year I have come very close to one of my friends, we have become best friends rather then friends. She suffers from depression, but says that talking to me helps her more then the councillors that the doctors have referred her to and her depression is getting better. She talks to me about everything and I have sorted out her love life so many times in the last year. she tells me that im the only one that she can trust and tell me her deepest feelings and I have told her things that I thought I would never tell anyone. The problem is that I love her as a friend and I love her.
I don’t want to screw her up again by telling her this.
Even more of a problem in this situation is she is a lesbian who used to be bi. And as a guy she would have no interest in me in that way.

Also even though I love her I don’t want to do any thing about it because I don’t want to lose my bestfriend.
If I do tell her im scared that she won’t really talk to me.
But my love for her is really ripping me up.

I know that there are more appropriate forums to ask these questions but we use each others computers and I don’t want her to see me on forums that are for these situations because she will then ask questions.

Jamie Bond · Post by **Jamie Bond** » Sun Feb 18, 2007 2:24 pm

Wrong forum, friend.

This is a forum created for a COMIC called "Real Life"

You might get some advice, but mostly you'll get flak, just a warning

daveyjones · Post by **daveyjones** » Sun Feb 18, 2007 2:49 pm

yeah i know, but its worth a try whilst being on the general chat section

Rorschach · Post by **Rorschach** » Sun Feb 18, 2007 3:13 pm

She's a lesbian who has ensured she's not into guys and you know that drowning her with a bladder-full of your steaming unrequited love will further mess-up her already messed-up head?
Where does the advice part come in?
Sorry dude. Suck it up. Life's a bitch and so's my Aunt Shirley.

daveyjones · Post by **daveyjones** » Sun Feb 18, 2007 4:08 pm

what she has said is if she were to go out with another guy it would be me.

Terrene · Post by **Terrene** » Sun Feb 18, 2007 5:04 pm

You should distance yourself from her, and spend more time with other women.

Kits · Post by **Kits** » Sun Feb 18, 2007 5:49 pm

In the immortal words of Mav, stick it in her pooper.

Mav · Post by **Mav** » Sun Feb 18, 2007 9:10 pm

Holy son of a bitch. I was just about to say that.

I'm not even joking. I'm kind of angry actually. I really wanted to get to say it.

God damn it.

Posted Sun Feb 18, 2007 1:11 pm:

I don't think there is any way I can actually impart on you guys how completely honest I am about that. I mean really, what the fuck? Get out of my mind.

Jezebel · Post by **Jezebel** » Sun Feb 18, 2007 9:40 pm

Watch Chasing Amy and everything will work itself out.

RadicalDreamer · Post by **RadicalDreamer** » Sun Feb 18, 2007 10:29 pm

[quote="daveyjones";p="719635"]what she has said is if she were to go out with another guy it would be me.[/quote]

Jamie Bond · Post by **Jamie Bond** » Sun Feb 18, 2007 11:57 pm

Tell her you have a crush on her.

Either she rejects it, and you can move on, or she doesn't and you can go from there.

Doing nothing is the worst choice.

Kits · Post by **Kits** » Mon Feb 19, 2007 12:14 am

[quote="Mav";p="719679"]Holy son of a bitch. I was just about to say that.

I'm not even joking. I'm kind of angry actually. I really wanted to get to say it.

God damn it.

Posted Sun Feb 18, 2007 1:11 pm:

I don't think there is any way I can actually impart on you guys how completely honest I am about that. I mean really, what the fuck? Get out of my mind.[/quote]

Whacha going to do about it?

Terrene · Post by **Terrene** » Mon Feb 19, 2007 12:19 am

[quote="Mav";p="719679"] Get out of my mind.[/quote]

Stop being predictable.

Phong · Post by **Phong** » Mon Feb 19, 2007 1:02 am

[quote="Jezebel";p="719685"]Watch Chasing Amy and everything will work itself out.[/quote]

Because we all know that the man hating dyke is gonna get that $50

Post by **Blaze** » Mon Feb 19, 2007 2:55 am

[quote="KitsuneMusume";p="719703"][quote="Mav";p="719679"]Holy son of a bitch. I was just about to say that.

I'm not even joking. I'm kind of angry actually. I really wanted to get to say it.

God damn it.

Posted Sun Feb 18, 2007 1:11 pm:

I don't think there is any way I can actually impart on you guys how completely honest I am about that. I mean really, what the fuck? Get out of my mind.[/quote]

Whacha going to do about it?[/quote]

He's going to whine and moan 'cause he's currently without a pooper to stick it in.

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