Whereas the actual act is pretty mindless,
Again, maybe the physical act of
bad sex is pretty mindless... but if your focus is getting your partner off and you're mindful of them and taking their cues and responding to them to get the act just right for them - it can't be mindless.
And Deacon, the only bit of your whole spiel I'm bothering with: I didn't quote Cypher because everyone's seen the Matrix, and so the words he speaks contain a huge negative connotation (and how somewhat misses the point that, pretty much, if it's accurately coded, to the brain there IS no difference between eating a Meatspace Steak and simulating eating a Matrix Steak) ... and that is, I imagine, the context it was brought up in - as a counterpoint, counting on the negative branding
(thank you, zefrank) that comes with it being Cypher that's quoted.
"He who lives by the sword dies by my arrow."
"In your histories, there are continual justifications for all manner of hellish actions. Claims of nobility and heritage and honor to cover up every bit of genocide, assassination, and massacre. At least the Horde is honest in their naked lust for power."