JermCool wrote:Don't feel some need to change my ways, Eric.
Nobody's trying to. You're explaining your stance, and I'm explaining mine. I grew up in a very church-involved Christian household (of Baptist background but more non-denominational-slash-evangelical since at least middle school) and was myself a very faithful, devout Christian until only a few years ago, probably some time around 22 or 23 or so... Just ask Fuggle, MB, and others here. I was a very strong, vocal proponent for Christianity in general and of sanity in the loathing some atheists harbor for it and put many hours into clearing up misconceptions about...
so many things...
I'm very well aware of all the modern theology and thought regarding prayer. My mother was just assigned the position of Prayer Pastor for the whole church my parents attend. NONE of this is a new topic to me, trust me. The difference is that when I wasn't immersed eyeballs-deep in it all, I began to see it from a distance, more objectively, and thus began to realize how truly silly it all is. I would be "backsliding" as some would call it, being less and less bound by the modern church-based conventions and traditions. The only thing that "proves" God and your alleged relationship with him (why/how "you know that you know") are the things you feel and what you
believe as a result. But the simple truth is it's no better or worse or more right or real than anyone else's religious experiences, and it can all be explained away as "God's will" or simply replaced with "a wizard did it." Even wacko cults make sense to the cult member when they live and breathe the stuff constantly. Same thing goes for political parties or any other such thing.
If I pray for rain, and none comes, I'm either being punished or it's not God's will or whatever. If the rain does come, then God answers prayer. Right? You pray for a little girl injured in a car wreck. The doctors work hard and sure enough, she pulls through. A miracle! Or, you know, good medical care and a strong young body. Interesting how few such "miracles" there were before the invention of penicillin and the washing of hands and bedsheets. Or maybe the little girl doesn't pull through. Well, God called her home, right? He's teaching her loved ones lessons in the desert, right? But the other little girl next to her for whom nobody was praying does pull through. Well, God must obviously have a plan for her life, right? Your sister gets knocked up by her husband when they weren't planning on having kids for several years at least, and "God allowed it to happen," because you know he has a plan, right? It's not that they said screw it and decided to forgo the condom that one time or forgot to take the pill one day or that everyone's body chemistry and reaction to hormones in the pill is different, etc. Indians were convinced their Rain Dancers were real. Were they? Do you really see God when you get a little peyote or magic mushrooms in your system, or is it just brain chemistry? If I pray for one thing, and you pray for the opposite, both fervently and with good hearts, what then?
It makes as much sense as believing in a lucky penny. At best it provides confidence and assurance, that extra edge needed to produce a positive result.
Jin-roh wrote:Quite frankly, who are you to determine whether a prayer has been effective or not?
A person? What kind of silly question is that? Either what you were praying for is fulfilled or not. The real problem is there's no way to determine whether your praying had jack to do with it or not, especially when they're matters entirely out of your control. But if you pray for wisdom regarding a major decision, and whatever you decide pans out, awesome. But if it doesn't, well, either you didn't hear God right or he decided you need to walk the desert for a while and teach you perseverance or whatever else.
Prayer is about more than request. It is worshipful reverence, thankfulness, praise, confession, repentance, and request all rolled into one. You're focusing on just one aspect when it is far more than that; as a result, you're misinterpreting what prayer is supposed to be.
He's really not, no. Thankfulness is not prayer. You can express your thankfulness in prayer, but there's no result of that. If someone asks "does prayer work" or "does God answer prayer" what they're asking is whether God grants requests, whether for things, for wisdom, for outcomes, for whatever. Asking does confession work, for instance, is kind of silly because really you won't know until you're dead, or the answer may be that it's just makes you feel better or whatever.
It is a plea to God, but an acknowledgment that His will is (and should be) paramount.
Yes, exactly why to anyone who doesn't share your deeply held conviction the the invisible wizard is real thinks it so silly, just running around assigning significance to coincidences.
And no, prayer is not worship. There's too much of that kind of thing in modern Christianity. Planting a garden is not worship. Cooking a meal for a homeless person is not worship. Going to work and doing your job well is not worship. Worship is basically synonymous with praise. You might be able to stretch it cover giving money to your pastor as an act of worship, but that's about it. It's like these days the Bible has become like the Constitution, the originator of concepts but after being interpreted further and further by people cashing in on book-devouring Christians, they've talked themselves into nearly everything.
And herein lies the problem for atheists.
I think the real problem for atheists is the same problem they'd have with someone who points at a red light and says, "Turn green!" and it does, and then they smile proudly and say, "I'm magic!" If you pray long enough and hard enough for rain, eventually it will come. It might even come in the next few minutes. But maybe not for years. But it would've come even if you hadn't been praying. Your prayer had no effect on the weather. Prayer may bring you some comfort and make you feel good or give you a sense of purpose, but it has no effect on the world around us.