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MissLegs · Post by **MissLegs** » Tue Sep 02, 2003 7:21 pm

AWE!!!
*MissLegs huggles TFH too*
Guys suck, don't they?

Mavolent · Post by **Mavolent** » Tue Sep 02, 2003 7:27 pm

Guys suck, don't they?

it's not just guys that suck, there are alot of females too who treat the people they date like crap.

MissLegs · Post by **MissLegs** » Tue Sep 02, 2003 7:30 pm

[quote="Mavolent";p="148788"]it's not just guys that suck, there are alot of females too who treat the people they date like crap.[/quote]

I know that too... been there, done that. But I keep going back for more. I must be insane.

Circe · Post by **Circe** » Tue Sep 02, 2003 9:26 pm

For the record, most of humanity sucks. Just about everyone is out for himself/herself and most do not think of the consequences or about feelings of others.

Beth, I don't know about any of your other boyfriends, but Russ is an ass. Plain and simple. He does not/did not deserve you. And, you should not even worry about what a guy like him thinks about you. You are a very beautiful, smart, funny, and friendly girl. You deserve to have a good person in your life that cares about what you think and loves every aspect of you. If somebody treats you like trash, that should be the end of the relationship. Do not stand for someone to walk all over you or act as though you are not worth his/her time. If a person does not find you worthy then chances are, that person is overestimating him/herself.

Good luck to everyone that is not in a relationship and wants one. There are still some worthwhile individuals in the world. Seems to me that most of those people have been burnt and don't wish to be hurt again. Well, we all make mistakes and date the wrong people before we find exactly what we need (to be alone or the special someone.) But, we can't let being burnt/hurt stop us from getting back up and trying again. If we all let injuries stop us from doing something again, how many of us would be just sitting around doing nothing. When we were children, we all fell when trying to walk, crawl, sit up, climb, ride a bicycle, etc. And we all have been emotionally scarred from various things too. There are billions of people in this world, don't let a few jerks completely mess up your happiness and sense of self worth.

billf · Post by **billf** » Tue Sep 02, 2003 10:06 pm

/me steals Circe

I know where you LIVE!

MWAA HAA HAA!

/me gets run over by Josh's yellow "SUV"

Fishmonger · Post by **Fishmonger** » Tue Sep 02, 2003 10:23 pm

I'm single, I haven't been in a romantic relationship for almost 6 years. Now I feel I've recovered enough from my past to begin to date again. Unfortunatly most girls are scared off by my past, and my non-traditional views and morals don't help me at all. In a weird twist of irony, the very same past that scares off most girls draws underage girls like flys to honey, leaving me insulated from any real suitors by a perpetual ring of JailBait. Theres nothing worse then Karmic CockBlocking.

Craig

rip21 · Post by **rip21** » Tue Sep 02, 2003 10:38 pm

Lifedeath my daughter just turned 2 in July. Sorry for taking so long to respond but I'm a moderator on my PS forum so I don't get over here to check this one as often as I should.
Besides billf scares me

Inside joke actually out of our whole group Billf was always the normal one growing up, now that should scare the rest of you

Eihger · Post by **Eihger** » Tue Sep 02, 2003 10:43 pm

I could ramble on and on about this subject, but then that would requier one of my post to acctualy be long

wouldn't that destroy the cosmos

grandjoke · Post by **grandjoke** » Wed Sep 03, 2003 1:01 am

i feel like saying more for some reason
for the most part the happiness a person feels in a relationship is little more than the set up to a hideously cruel joke. the punchline being your eventual realization that you actually thought someone could love you. you can keep deluding yourself but that doesnt change the fact that no matter how close you are to someone you will always on some level be completely isolated from everyone. love is complete bullsh*t. it's just people's way of masking their carnal desires. /end rant

Jezebel · Post by **Jezebel** » Wed Sep 03, 2003 1:10 am

Love is not a false thing, I do not believe. I have been in probably too many serious relationships considering my age, and have been in love before. I think the most important thing to think about before entering into a relationship is your capacity to love yourself. As trite and cliche as that sounds, it's 100% true. Self loathing breeds insecurity, which breeds questioning your loved ones ability to love you, which leads to questioning the validity of the relationship itself. When the relationship does fall apart, the cycle just starts over once more. I think a lot of love is about being able to accept and embrace not only your flaws, but those of the one you love. Knowing when to bite your tongue, when not to nag, when to cuddle and stroke when you would rather curse and scream.

Being able to curb and eventually overcome ones first instinctive thought(yelling at someone when they don't do what they say, ignoring someone when they are being grumpy to you, etc) is a big step toward realizing how much you do love a person. When you want to do everything in your power to better the relationship, even if that means adjusting your habits and reactions, that says a lot.

Now, I'm not saying that you should completely change yourself when entering into a relationship, but it becomes more of what you can do to make them happy, what you can do to make both of you better people. It's not a race. It's not about winning or losing. It's about getting there together.

rip21 · Post by **rip21** » Wed Sep 03, 2003 2:48 am

I agree with you for the most part Jez except for the part where you say to curb your first intstinct.
IMO that is the problem with most people in relationships, they have a problem with their significant other yet they "keep the peace" and they only end up letting a small problem become a bigger problem until it ends up severing the whole relationship.
This may not be true in all cases, but I find it is true in just about everyone one of mine.

Minty Altoids · Post by **Minty Altoids** » Wed Sep 03, 2003 2:52 am

[quote="Mavolent";p="148788"]

Guys suck, don't they?

it's not just guys that suck, there are alot of females too who treat the people they date like crap.[/quote]

true dat, i just broke up with someone because they wanted to flirt with other guys, we were together for a little over a year.

JonnWood · Post by **JonnWood** » Wed Sep 03, 2003 3:36 am

[quote="Jezebel";p="149134"]Love is not a false thing, I do not believe. I have been in probably too many serious relationships considering my age, and have been in love before. I think the most important thing to think about before entering into a relationship is your capacity to love yourself. As trite and cliche as that sounds, it's 100% true. Self loathing breeds insecurity, which breeds questioning your loved ones ability to love you, which leads to questioning the validity of the relationship itself. When the relationship does fall apart, the cycle just starts over once more. I think a lot of love is about being able to accept and embrace not only your flaws, but those of the one you love. [/quote]

Well. That explans my self-esteem problems due to constant teasing in early primary school. And the fact that two girls have asked me to prom.

Yes. You heard me. Two. Advice please?

billf · Post by **billf** » Wed Sep 03, 2003 4:05 am

meh, take them both.

rip21 · Post by **rip21** » Wed Sep 03, 2003 4:09 am

damn billf beat me to it

go do some work or something.

but seriously If you want an serious answer to that question. Its simple take the girl that you will have the best time with ( steer away from the sterotypical take the hotter one course of Action).

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