Girlfriends who get in car accidents and break up with me...

End · Post by **End** » Sun Sep 07, 2003 5:47 am

My girlfriend recently got into a huge car accident. Im pretty sure a few of you heard about it...it was rather saddening and caused me a lot of grief. Two weeks after the accident i stopped delivering flowers, i stopped sneaking her in chocolate bars, and bringing her teddy bears. Only cause she asked me to. I wasn't really concerned about it. Then she tells me that she wants to see other people. I was a bit confused. I didn't know how she got the thought of leaving me and i was really wondering if it was the drugs. Well she was very open with me. She told me that there was someone else. Now this is the part that totally confused me. Turns out, there is a parapalegic who comes and reads to her everyday. He was in the same area as her (after she got of ICU). I have never felt so pathetic in my life. Not to say that people who can't walk are lesser men, but...bleh

Quan-Time · Post by **Quan-Time** » Sun Sep 07, 2003 5:55 am

its life man.
it happens.. my gf broke it up with me from stress and exams.. she got over it fine, im ok. but it still bites that you care for someone so much then they bail on you...

just think this way, you care for someone, but they dont care for you back, but when you find someone that DOES care for you back, and appreciates the things you do, it can only get better..

relish in the fact that you have care to give, and that we all care for you.

Post by **Blaze** » Sun Sep 07, 2003 5:56 am

Well.....

I'm not exactly sure what to say about that. But I will tell you one thing for certian. After my surgeries, for a short time, my entire demeanor changed. I was sure I never wanted to touch the computer or any of my robotics stuff again. Perhaps this is something similar to what I went through.

It's ALSO possible that either A) She thinks you can't understand what she's gone through, and this guy who's nice to her can, or B) She thinks you won't be able to love her with whatever scars or whatever she'll have, so she needs to go for somebody more attainable......

I dunno. Could be lots of things, but those are the first few that come to mind.

End · Post by **End** » Sun Sep 07, 2003 5:58 am

thanks Blaze...but i really am not sure on this one...i know it's not B thats for sure. Might be A...

Shyknight · Post by **Shyknight** » Sun Sep 07, 2003 6:29 am

Of course there's always C: she doesn't love you anymore and would use any excuse to leave you and your creepy/clingy affection, even a paralyzed guy who reads bedtime stories to her. If she ends up um... having some sort of odd relationship with him... well then he'll just be that much easier to leave when she backstabs him for the latest interesting moving thing with a penis.

And I'm being overly critical of her on purpose now, not because I believe a word of what I just wrote, but because if it turns out to be true, I want at least one of us to have known and begun hurling the bitterness and heartbreaking resentment early on.

Sorry End... from the impression I get, I know you'll soon find someone who won't throw aside your love so casually.

End · Post by **End** » Sun Sep 07, 2003 6:46 am

Hopefully

billf · Post by **billf** » Mon Sep 08, 2003 1:35 am

This thread has been purged of stupidity thanks to your friendly neighborhood billf.

Jamie Bond · Post by **Jamie Bond** » Mon Sep 08, 2003 3:19 am

Praise the billf!

The Forum Hillbilly · Post by **The Forum Hillbilly** » Mon Sep 08, 2003 4:37 am

/me lights a candle and sits it at the stupidity shrine.

MissCheetah · Post by **MissCheetah** » Mon Sep 08, 2003 8:05 pm

While it certainly sucks to have someone break up with you after you have shown such affection, it is good to hear that she respected you enough to be honest with you and tell you how she really felt. It is far worse to have someone cheat on you and lie to you.

Fixer · Post by **Fixer** » Mon Sep 08, 2003 8:51 pm

Back when I was in high school, I was dating this one girl. One month after we started 'dating' (which, I couldn't drive and she had a job, so we saw each other only at school) she got into a bad car accident. I got my mother to drive me out to see her only to have her break up with me. Admittedly, the only reason I was dating her at the time was because she asked me and I couldn't think of a real reason to say no (that was how I thought back then) so there wasn't a lot of emotion invested in the relationship, but it still hurt a bit.

I got over it. You will too, End.

If it makes you feel any better about two years later when I was working at a convenience store, she cornered me in the cooler and smooched me. Nothing but a smooch, but it was still weird. I didn't feel anything for her.

Anwaerme · Post by **Anwaerme** » Tue Sep 09, 2003 12:58 am

Break-up suck trust me I just went through one and there's only one thing I have to say.....Millions of Fish in the sea.

Post by **Blaze** » Tue Sep 09, 2003 1:15 am

Krunk no like fish.

Kirstie · Post by **Kirstie** » Tue Sep 09, 2003 7:34 am

*kirstie hugs End
it sucks when you lose someone for someone else, My last boyfriend left me for a Hooker.. and yes im serious.
heh.
but hey after a while i got over it, found someone else
everything will work out for the best
i promise

-hugs and stuff-

Vidtani · Post by **Vidtani** » Tue Sep 09, 2003 9:09 am

dude what a b*tch.

not to make fun of people you date and you may not like me calling her that but ... dang!!

*pissed at this girl because she gives cool chicks like me a bad name*

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