why Men and women don't get eachother,..

siriansenemy · Post by **siriansenemy** » Fri Nov 07, 2003 5:20 pm

[quote="MissCheetah";p="208182"]
15. Will you marry me? = Shoot me if I ever say that.
[/quote]

Why is that, MC? Do you not want to ever tie the knot with somebody?

Fixer · Post by **Fixer** » Fri Nov 07, 2003 5:27 pm

[quote="siriansenemy";p="208774"][quote="MissCheetah";p="208182"]
15. Will you marry me? = Shoot me if I ever say that.
[/quote]
Why is that, MC? Do you not want to ever tie the knot with somebody?[/quote]
/me takes the can of worms sirian just opened and tosses it away before it explodes.

HIT THE DIRT!

/me falls on the ground.

CutieCorey · Post by **CutieCorey** » Fri Nov 07, 2003 5:47 pm

Shyknight wrote:
I don't get it. Somebody told her a lie in a different thread and she believed it?

Nope, not to my knowledge. I don't think I am gullible, I am just a very trusting person until somebody gives me a reason to think otherwise.

MissCheetah · Post by **MissCheetah** » Fri Nov 07, 2003 6:12 pm

Well.. I never want kids and see no reason to get married. I have watched too many marriages go down in flames. I say this as I am getting ready to go to my sister's wedding tomorrow. She had the sense not to have me actually in the wedding party. Long story really.

The Forum Hillbilly · Post by **The Forum Hillbilly** » Fri Nov 07, 2003 6:15 pm

Nope, not to my knowledge. I don't think I am gullible, I am just a very trusting person until somebody gives me a reason to think otherwise.

Hmm, I'm the other way around, I don't really trust anybody unless they give me a reason to.

Phong · Post by **Phong** » Mon Nov 10, 2003 5:09 am

Some of the responces here disturb me a little, specifically many of the women have stated that they give mis-leading answers when not wanting to "hurt" a boys feelings.

I've had to put up with that sort of thing my whole life, it hurts my feelings alot more to be jacked around with. Frankly, it is a selfish action. Eventually the man, or boy in question will discover your true feelings. You cannot spare him a feeling of rejection. In the end it spares your own feelings not his, and is. to me, indicative of a desire not to be disliked by him even if you don't like him back, which is inevitable if he is a person who will dislike you for such a thing.

Leeloo · Post by **Leeloo** » Mon Nov 10, 2003 5:44 am

For me:

1. Yes = Yes
2. No = Maybe.. I'm not sure if I want you to know the truth.
3. Maybe = Probaly not
4. We need... = N/A
5. I am sorry = Either I'm sorry or "Fuck you"
6. We need to talk = I think I might be pregnant

j/k Usually it's something actually important, though.
7. Sure, go ahead = We've already talked about this, I said I didn't like it, but whatever.
8. Do what you want = We've already talked about this, I said I didn't like it, but whatever.
9. I am not upset = I don't want to talk about it right now, leave me alone if you like your balls
10. Are you listening to me? = Put down that game for a minute, I'm trying to sleep with you.
11. You have to learn to communicate = N/A
12. Be romantic, turn out the lights = I'm scared of your ugliness
13. You're so manly = N/A
14. Do you love me? = N/A .. if I had to ask, the answer is no.
15. It's your decision = We've already talked about this, I said I didn't like it, but whatever.
16. You're certainly attentive tonight = Why are our clothes still on, man?!!?! What's wrong with you?
17. I'll be ready in a minute = Come in here and help me get dressed
18. How much do you love me? = Slap me if I ask this

Well.. I never want kids and see no reason to get married. I have watched too many marriages go down in flames. I say this as I am getting ready to go to my sister's wedding tomorrow. She had the sense not to have me actually in the wedding party. Long story really.

I agree with you, the most I'd serious go for would probaly be just a legal marriage for Tax stuff. I just want to move in with someone, and no way I'm going to carry a child for 9 months, only to go through labor and then having to deal with "it". for the next 18 years. If I want to be with someone, I don't want a kid to intrrupt that. Ever. I'm selfish. Very selfish, apprently.

Edit:

4. I am hungry = It'd be sweet and you'd get sex(if we're dating) if you made me food.
5. I am sleepy = Please let me go to bed. Please.
7. Nice dress = I have no idea what else to say to you, female.
8. I love you = Usually just something I toss around with friends.. You bring me a soda? I LOVE YOU!!!! I've only said it once in an actual relationship and I meant it.
9. I am bored = This is my normal state of mind and I want to talk to you but you're not saying anything.. please talk to me.
10. What's wrong? = I want to know if it's my fault and how I can fix it.

13. Do you want to go to a movie? = My friends suck and I like hanging out with you.. plus this movie is awsome, have you seen the trailer?

16. You look tense, let me give you a massage =You're too into what you're doing and I want attention.

18. I don't think those shoes go with that outfit = I'm joking. What the heck do I know about shoes?

Catine · Post by **Catine** » Mon Nov 10, 2003 5:51 am

[quote="Leeloo";p="210422"]If I want to be with someone, I don't want a kid to intrrupt that. Ever. I'm selfish. Very selfish, apprently.[/quote]

Me too.

Leeloo · Post by **Leeloo** » Mon Nov 10, 2003 5:58 am

Good to know I'm not the only one.. most people just think I'm a bitch because of that

;;

Evil Hobgoblin · Post by **Evil Hobgoblin** » Mon Nov 10, 2003 6:08 am

[quote="MissCheetah";p="208816"]Well.. I never want kids and see no reason to get married. I have watched too many marriages go down in flames. I say this as I am getting ready to go to my sister's wedding tomorrow. She had the sense not to have me actually in the wedding party. Long story really.[/quote]

That you have such a perspective is a darn shame, MC. I've always believed that the chance for a passionate, fulfilling one-on-one connection is quite possible if both members of the relationship are mature. It might be hard to find one mature person out of all the halfway-mature people in the world, but I think it would be worth it.

As for kids, I love them and am told frequently I would make a great dad.

asp55 · Post by **asp55** » Mon Nov 10, 2003 7:04 am

The way I see it, if you actually desire children, there are enough "extra" ones out there that need someone to raise them, no need to add your own to the mix.

That's my 2 cents on the whole kids thing...

The Forum Hillbilly · Post by **The Forum Hillbilly** » Mon Nov 10, 2003 7:16 am

I like kids, i'd like to have a family one day, around 2 kids, But I wouldn't want to have any kids until after i've been married for a few years. I wouldn't really want to adopt, I'd like to have them.

FlynnTargart · Post by **FlynnTargart** » Mon Nov 10, 2003 7:22 am

1. Yes = Yes
2. No = No
3. Maybe = if I don't have to help in any way...
4. I am hungry = I am hungry
5. I am sleepy = I am sleepy, and hungry
6. I am tired = I am tired, and hungry
7. Nice dress = Nice dress, you're hot.
9. I am bored = (guy friends) We need beer and food / (girls) Food then sex
10. I like those shoes = (guy) I want them (girl) more?!?
11. May I have this dance? = N/A (flynn has NO moves)
12. Can I call you sometime? = I'd like to have sex with you
13. Will you marry me? = Take away my beer, I'm already legally dead....
14. Sure go ahead = (guy friends) No I will not lie to the police for you (girl friends) if you're still going to have cloths on, I don't care...
15. It's your decision = (guy friends) I don't want to drive to the ER, remember what happend last time? They haven't taken your casts off yet anyway... (girl friends) meh....
16. You're certainly attentive tonight = you're wasting time, get to it!
17. I'll be read in a sec - I'm good to go unless this is one of those "with pants" events...
18. Whats wrong? - I'm only asking to seem like less of an ass, I don't really care, and I really really don't want to listen to you bitch about things...
19. Be romantic, turn out the lights = I don't care, the camcorder has night-vision...

SevTiZ · Post by **SevTiZ** » Mon Nov 10, 2003 4:18 pm

[quote="Leeloo";p="210422"]10. Are you listening to me? = Put down that game for a minute, I'm trying to sleep with you.[/quote]

Why does that remind me of Mallrats?
"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned for Sega"

4. I am hungry = It'd be sweet and you'd get sex(if we're dating) if you made me food.

"Breakfast, shmreakfast. Look at the score, for Christ's sake. It's only the second period and I'm up 12 to 2. Breakfasts come and go, Rene, but Hartford, "the Whale," they only beat Vancouver once, maybe twice in a lifetime."

7. Nice dress = I have no idea what else to say to you, female.

"...during my grandmother's funeral when you told my relatives that you could see her nipples through her burial dress, I let that slide."

fear my View Askew obsession... mwahahaha....

Mav · Post by **Mav** » Mon Nov 10, 2003 5:17 pm

Yes, yes I am Shy. If there was any possible way for you to make your "dictionary" more nauseating, I'd be impressed.

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