Why are thin girls better than fat girls?

SoulMusic · Post by **SoulMusic** » Fri Dec 12, 2003 7:56 pm

I do have to say that I agree 100% with these people and their comments:
Beware of the Leopard
AkaneInTheWired
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And before anybody says anything, YES I am a girl.

The fact that Mew said that is beyond the point that it is different than what you would expect from the stereotypical male (and I don't agree with stereotypes, nor do I think it is fair. But right now I am using it in reference to the world's assumption of most men). It is indeed the fact that he is placing women into groups. Everyone is different, and everyone has different ideas of what they consider skinny/twiglike or overweight/fat. If a girl was aware that you were dating her because she is "skinny" or "fat" I don't think she would be very pleased. Nomatter if you even felt it as a compliment (god only knows why you would think it a compliment...I say god needs to give you a brain for Christmas). A girl wants to know that you look beyond any type of flaws she has and like her for HER. you like her personality and her inner beauty...The reason that you like her has nothing to do with her physical shape. I girl can be attractive in any shape or size. What some may define as a twiglike girl or fat can be gorgeous. Placing any person in a group like that can be hurtful and degrading. You are making yourself look like an ass saying that you only like "fat girls". That puts people into groups. If you like a girl that is perfectly confident in her looks and she becomes aware of the reason you like her...that'll piss her off, hurt her feelings, and might very possibly make her self concious . There is alot more to deal with in life than stereotypes and insults. By saying that you like this group vs. that group is cruel You are placing people into unneccessary groups. You are ruining yourself and the possible relationships you might have with others!!!

It is hard to find somebody confident in their body image, and placing people into groups only makes it worse. You need to learn that catagorizing people in such a was is horrible and only makes you look like an ass! You may think that you are being all "noble" standing up for your thought of overweight women, but it is only hurting people.

You should like a girl for her personality, good qualities, and the fun you have with her!!

Grow up and learn to like people as individuals, not by body structure!!!

Mew Guy · Post by **Mew Guy** » Fri Dec 12, 2003 8:18 pm

I said I don't like thin girls. I didn't say I don't like slim girls.

I didn't say I think a girl's body type is more important than her personlity.

When I like a girl, I become their friend and find out what they're like.

Skorpion · Post by **Skorpion** » Fri Dec 12, 2003 8:43 pm

You're still an idiot.

Teranfirbt · Post by **Teranfirbt** » Fri Dec 12, 2003 11:08 pm

Mew guy.... you are a fucktard... it doesnt matter if they are "fat" or "thin" as long as you like the person..... hell, by societies standards my last girlfriend would probably be considered fat, and she's 135 lbs at 5'8"..... and shes not fat >_>. being fat or thin is all a part of society... 100 years ago guys looked for bigger women because they were suppose to be able to rear kids better....

its all about society.

m_artorius · Post by **m_artorius** » Sat Dec 13, 2003 10:49 am

I like cheese. Does that make me an idiot?

Edit: And in defense of the idiot, what's wrong with liking a certain type of girl? If somebody is more attracted to a certain type a look, who's it hurting? Just because he likes fat chicks doesn't mean he'll spend the rest of his life with one. He might end up marrying a skinny chick or *gasp* a man!

Benjamin · Post by **Benjamin** » Sat Dec 13, 2003 4:15 pm

not my views but I got a smirk or two out of it

Phoenix Talon · Post by **Phoenix Talon** » Sat Dec 13, 2003 5:25 pm

In light over everything....

It's said that all (sterotyping here, but bear with me...) guys go for looks first, and some just go only for looks. But the reciprical is the same. Lots of girls go for "good-looking" guys with out thinking of what they are like. It's the way the world works.

In my opinion, I'd rather be a friend first, then start dating. Both of the girlfriends I've had could be classified as a little heavy, but I didn't care. I dated them for their personalitly, though I thought both of them were cute. And know what, I'm still friends with them to this day. Hell, I'm even friends with one of their current Boyfriends! It's all in perspective to the type of person you are.

Gikk · Post by **Gikk** » Sat Dec 13, 2003 8:44 pm

Honestly, I'm fat.

Totally and completely. I'm working on losing weight; it's just a really slow process for me. (however, as previously mentioned, my stomach is smaller then my bust - having big boobs helps you look proportional if you are overweight)

Anyway - people who define who other people are because of thier weight really disturb me. SERIOUSLY. Whether they are pro or against or whatever is irrelevent. Look at people for who they are, not for thier weight; while people say looks are important, they are - but look for things like how they dress and if they are clean, and how they treat themselves, not thier bodytype.

While I have a problem with the folks who eat 5 lbs. of food in a sitting and drink 80 oz. of pepsi in 10 minutes, for the regular not 'supersized' individuals, whether they are thin or not makes little difference.

Fixer · Post by **Fixer** » Mon Dec 15, 2003 3:40 pm

Of the women I have dated, about half would be qualified as overweight. Do I have a certain predisposition towards overweight or underweight women? No that I can think of, my ex-wife was actually very well-proportioned (read: athletic).

For me it is, and always has been, personality. Bodies improve and degrade with age and effort. What might be a beautiful woman now can have a car accident and become horribly disfigured (which actually happened to one of my ex-girlfriends, she ended up breaking up with me a week after the accident). To base your relationship on the appearance of you mate is rather ridiculous. People's appearances change, but who they are remains relatively constant.

Look to what is within, not what you see. That is what matters.

Eihger · Post by **Eihger** » Mon Dec 15, 2003 10:49 pm

I could careless on how they look, but as long as I can stand to be a round them, thats what matters. If they are that AND attractive, bonus

Rorschach · Post by **Rorschach** » Mon Dec 15, 2003 10:57 pm

Why are thin girls better than fat girls?

Better at what?

Mew Guy · Post by **Mew Guy** » Tue Dec 16, 2003 1:11 am

[quote="Rorschach";p="239193"]

Why are thin girls better than fat girls?

Better at what?[/quote]

Getting boyfriends, getting jobs, etc.

Calus · Post by **Calus** » Tue Dec 16, 2003 1:53 am

Calus throws Mew Guy into a shuttle with a one way trip to the sun.

Mista · Post by **Mista** » Tue Dec 16, 2003 3:07 am

Umm Mew Guy, are you just pulling this out of your head? Seriously dude, turn off your computer, get off your ass, and look at the world around you. Don't make bullshit assumptions like that.

EvilElf · Post by **EvilElf** » Tue Dec 16, 2003 4:19 am

[quote="Mew Guy";p="239345"][quote="Rorschach";p="239193"]

Why are thin girls better than fat girls?

Better at what?[/quote]

Getting boyfriends, getting jobs, etc.[/quote]

I only see the job thing on Models and yesh are they ever wayyyy toooo underweight.

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