Sex: What does it mean to you?

jesse, stay asleep in bed · Post by **jesse, stay asleep in bed** » Sat Feb 07, 2004 10:17 am

I was just curious as to how you guys looked at sex. I mean, is it this beyond-physical bonding moment that happens between two people? Or is it just something you do, like tennis on the weekends?

If you've got to say something about it, just say something about your gender(in addition to your opinion, heh.). It'd be interesting to see the difference between guys' and girls' responses.

Dragonmaster Zoc · Post by **Dragonmaster Zoc** » Sat Feb 07, 2004 11:29 am

[quote="jesse, stay asleep in bed";p="273459"]I
If you've got to say something about it, just say something about your gender. It'd be interesting to see the difference between guys' and girls' responses.[/quote]

I'm confused; you want us to just say something about our gender and not give our actual opinion?

tannii · Post by **tannii** » Sat Feb 07, 2004 12:02 pm

No sex before marriage. It's a Christian thing and also, the thought of sex with more than one person in one lifetime seems a bit wrong to me. Maybe because the thought of sex gets me all squirmy and nervous. I don't think I'd ever be able to be that vulnerable in front of someone I wasn't married to and was sure wouldn't dump me the next day. Plus, I'm also a bit of a romantic. The whole idea of celebacy before marriage is such an honourable and romantic thing. /sigh.

Dragonmaster Zoc · Post by **Dragonmaster Zoc** » Sat Feb 07, 2004 12:14 pm

Well now that my question has been answered or ignored, I might as well answer.

I am male. tannii is female, in case you couldn't tell. And my story is rather long; tannii knows it, but I hope she won't tell if you ask her. I may paraphrase later depending on how comfortable I feel.

Amanalphion · Post by **Amanalphion** » Sat Feb 07, 2004 12:14 pm

I'm not a Christian, but I still think abstinence until marriage is the right idea. Besides a few of the reasons tannii stated above, it also reduces the risk of HIV and other STDs if you only have sex with one person. Not only that, there's always a chance of pregnancy. Yes, even with condoms.

Prospero · Post by **Prospero** » Sat Feb 07, 2004 1:59 pm

I'd rather save myself for someone I really care about.

YH · Post by YH » Sat Feb 07, 2004 3:54 pm

<ignoramus> Not now, jesse, stay asleep in bed. I have a headache.

Okay okay I'll be less lame and more serious. While I am not against sex before marriage (there are those that do not believe in marriage), I see it as something you have to be ready before, and you have to be honest about it. In other words, honestly it is something I personally am not ready for.

ChronoSword · Post by **ChronoSword** » Sat Feb 07, 2004 4:28 pm

I believe that sex is the physical union between a man and a women. When a man and a women get married they become "one flesh" in all aspects of their life. Sex is just the physical aspect. It is also known that premarital sex is the number one cause of failed marriages. So, I believe no sex till marriage.

Skorpion · Post by **Skorpion** » Sat Feb 07, 2004 5:22 pm

I'm male, and I'm currently divided between options #1 and #3. I'm lucky enough to be popular with girls, and I feel I should take advantage of that. This is contrasted by my more sentimental side, saying I should save myself for someone I love.

lifedeath · Post by **lifedeath** » Sat Feb 07, 2004 6:04 pm

I don't care about having sex before my marriage...

What happens if my beloved one will come when i will be 35...

YIKES

Till then one night stands are my prefered...easy, safe(if you watch out) and with no attachments

ye i know....

(chosed the first option)

don't look me like that

Post by **Blaze** » Sat Feb 07, 2004 6:10 pm

Marriage is good, but not NECESSARY by any means, but I do have to at least feel really strongly with the potential for marriage in the future.

AustralianBloke · Post by **AustralianBloke** » Sat Feb 07, 2004 6:39 pm

i dont think there is much wrong with it, im a christian but i dont really feel strong about the whole celebasy before marriage.

if its with someone you love and you both want to then i dont see whats the problem

jesse, stay asleep in bed · Post by **jesse, stay asleep in bed** » Sat Feb 07, 2004 6:43 pm

[quote="Dragonmaster Zoc";p="273464"][quote="jesse, stay asleep in bed";p="273459"]I
If you've got to say something about it, just say something about your gender. It'd be interesting to see the difference between guys' and girls' responses.[/quote]

I'm confused; you want us to just say something about our gender and not give our actual opinion?[/quote]

Sorry, I'm stupid, I meant to add a little bit about your gender. I fixed it.

Posted Sat Feb 07, 2004 10:56 am:

Bah, I edited the message, and the poll disappeared!~ wtf?

Posted Sat Feb 07, 2004 10:56 am:

Bah, I edited the message, and the poll disappeared!~ wtf?

Rorschach · Post by **Rorschach** » Sat Feb 07, 2004 7:28 pm

Editing polls cause the options to diappear, the same thing happened to me last week
PM a Mod - the lovely Circe helped me out

gravity · Post by **gravity** » Sat Feb 07, 2004 7:39 pm

Sex is the means the human race uses to reproduce and continue the species.

That is it's ENTIRE meaning to grav.

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